Personality based coaching: How to stop fighting your brain
Personality based coaching is a targeted development approach that aligns your professional growth with your natural psychological traits rather than...
A fulfilling career is built on the alignment between your natural work personality and the daily actions you perform, rather than just chasing a higher salary or a more impressive job title.
Most of us spend decades climbing a ladder only to realise it’s leaning against the wrong wall, leaving us feeling misunderstood or like we’re constantly wearing a mask at our desks. If you’ve ever been told you’re ‘too much’ of something – too detailed, too loud, too sensitive – the truth is that you aren’t broken; you’re just in an environment that doesn’t know how to use your specific strengths.
Key takeaways
- True career fulfilment comes from self-awareness and understanding your dominant work personality.
- Burnout often stems from a mismatch between your natural tendencies and your job requirements.
- A fulfilling career is a long-term project that requires regular reflection and environmental adjustments.
- Leveraging tools like Hey Compono can help you navigate these shifts by providing data-driven personality insights.
We’ve been sold a lie that a fulfilling career is something you ‘find’ like a hidden treasure or a lucky break in a recruitment cycle. In reality, fulfilment is something you engineer by understanding the mechanics of your own brain. When you’re stuck in a role that demands you to be a ‘Doer’ when you’re naturally an ‘Advisor’, every task feels like wading through treacle. It’s not a lack of work ethic – it’s a lack of alignment.
At Compono, we’ve spent over a decade researching the dynamics of high-performing teams and individual satisfaction. What we’ve found is that the professionals who report the highest levels of career joy aren’t necessarily the ones with the biggest offices. They are the ones who have managed to bridge the gap between who they are and what they do. This starts with a radical honesty about what actually energises you versus what drains your battery by midday.
Consider the ‘Campaigner’ personality. If you put a Campaigner in a role that requires eight hours of solitary data entry, they will eventually wither, no matter how good the pay is. They need to sell the dream, inspire others, and work in the big-picture realm. To build a Hey Compono-approved career path, you have to stop trying to fix your ‘weaknesses’ and start doubling down on your natural inclinations.

How do you know if you’re actually on the path to a fulfilling career or just coasting on autopilot? The signs of misalignment are usually emotional before they are professional. You might feel a sense of dread on Sunday evenings, or perhaps you feel like a fraud even when you’re succeeding. This ‘imposter syndrome’ often isn’t about a lack of skill – it’s the friction of acting out a personality that isn’t yours to maintain.
When your work environment ignores your natural traits, you start to over-function. For example, an ‘Auditor’ who is forced into a high-pressure sales role might succeed through sheer grit, but they will pay for it with chronic stress. They are designed for precision, methodical processes, and independent work. Forcing them to be a loud, persuasive promoter is an inefficient use of human potential. Recognising these friction points is the first step toward reclaiming your career trajectory.
The Hey Compono app helps you identify these friction points by mapping your personality against eight key work actions. By seeing where you naturally sit on the wheel – whether you’re a Coordinator, a Helper, or a Pioneer – you can start to see why certain tasks feel like second nature while others feel like an uphill battle. It’s about moving from ‘working hard’ to ‘working right’ for your specific internal wiring.
Research into high-performing teams has identified eight critical work activities: Evaluating, Coordinating, Campaigning, Pioneering, Advising, Helping, and Doing. A fulfilling career doesn’t require you to be good at all of them – in fact, trying to be a generalist is often a recipe for mediocrity and misery. Instead, fulfilment comes from finding the 20% of work that yields 80% of your satisfaction.
If you identify as a ‘Pioneer’, your fulfilment comes from innovation and risk-taking. You need space to breathe and experiment. On the other hand, if you are a ‘Coordinator’, you find peace in structure, deadlines, and clear procedures. Neither is better, but they require vastly different career architectures. Understanding these pillars allows you to stop comparing your ‘behind-the-scenes’ with everyone else’s ‘highlight reel’ and focus on your own unique contribution.
Many modern professionals find that using a personality-adaptive approach to their development changes the game. This is why Hey Compono focuses on self-awareness as the foundation of growth. When you know you’re an ‘Evaluator’, you can seek out roles that value your analytical mind and objective risk assessment, rather than feeling guilty that you aren’t the most ‘empathetic’ person in the room. You’re not cold – you’re precise.

Once you understand your work personality, the next step in building a fulfilling career is environmental design. You might not be able to quit your job tomorrow, but you can certainly start to ‘job craft’. This involves subtly shifting your responsibilities to better align with your strengths. If you’re a ‘Helper’ stuck in a technical role, could you volunteer to mentor new starters? If you’re a ‘Doer’ in a vague strategy role, can you volunteer to create the project implementation plans?
Longevity in a career isn’t about endurance – it’s about sustainability. You can’t sustain a career that requires you to be someone else. This is where the concept of ‘psychological safety’ comes in. You need to be in a team where your natural traits are seen as assets. If your current workplace views your need for detail as ‘nit-picking’, it might be time to look for a culture that values the ‘Auditor’ perspective. Fulfilment is as much about where you are as it is about what you do.
At Compono, we believe that the future of work is personal. We’ve moved past the era of the ‘company man’ and into an era where individual contribution is king. By leveraging data and psychological insights, you can stop guessing what your next move should be and start making decisions based on who you actually are. This isn’t about finding a ‘dream job’ – it’s about creating a dream life where work is a source of energy rather than a drain.
Key insights
- Fulfilment is an ongoing process of alignment between your internal personality and your external work environment.
- There are eight distinct work personalities, and knowing yours is the key to reducing workplace friction.
- You can ‘job craft’ your current role by taking on tasks that align with your dominant work actions.
- A fulfilling career requires the courage to stop fixing your natural traits and start leveraging them.
- Data-driven self-awareness tools are essential for navigating the modern, complex career landscape.
Building a fulfilling career doesn't happen by accident. It takes the right tools and a willingness to look under the hood of your own behaviour. If you're ready to stop feeling misunderstood and start working in a way that feels natural, it's time to get some real data on your side.
The first step is simply understanding your baseline. How do you actually prefer to work when the pressure is on? What are your natural blind spots? Once you have these answers, the path forward becomes much clearer.
The best way to identify your strengths is through objective personality assessment. We often overlook our greatest talents because they feel ‘easy’ to us. Tools like Hey Compono can highlight these natural preferences by comparing your traits to established work action frameworks.
Yes, through ‘job crafting’. By identifying which parts of your role align with your work personality – like the ‘Helper’ or ‘Coordinator’ – and increasing the time you spend on those tasks, you can significantly improve your daily satisfaction without changing your job title.
Not necessarily. While passion helps, fulfilment is more about ‘flow’. Flow happens when the challenge of a task perfectly matches your natural skills and personality. You can find fulfilment in very practical roles if they allow you to work in your preferred way.
It’s healthy to do a deep dive every 6–12 months. As you grow and your life circumstances change, what you need from a career might shift. Regular reflection ensures you don’t drift too far away from your natural alignment.
While your core personality traits tend to be stable, your preferences for how you apply them can evolve with experience. This is why continuous self-awareness is vital for maintaining a fulfilling career over the long term.

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