Find my strengths: why you feel misunderstood at work
Have you ever felt like you’re constantly fighting against the grain of your own brain? Maybe you’ve spent years being told you’re too blunt, too...
Have you ever sat at your desk, stared at a half-finished email, and wondered why every task feels like you’re trying to push a boulder uphill? We’ve been told our whole lives that if we just work harder or ‘fix’ our weaknesses, we’ll eventually find success. But the truth is, most of us are exhausted because we’re working against our natural grain, trying to be a version of ourselves that doesn’t actually exist. A self assessment career strategy isn’t about finding a new set of productivity hacks; it’s about finally understanding the ‘why’ behind your behaviour so you can stop Dimming your light to fit into a role that was never meant for you.
Most of us navigate our professional lives based on external feedback. You might have been told you’re “too direct,” “too quiet,” or “too focused on the big picture.” Over time, you start to believe these are flaws you need to iron out. You spend years in roles that drain your battery because you think that’s just what ‘work’ feels like. This is the fundamental problem with the modern workplace: it asks us to adapt to the job, rather than finding a job that adapts to us.
When you don’t truly understand your work personality, you make decisions based on what looks good on paper or what pays the most. But five years down the line, the burnout hits like a tonne of bricks. You realize you’ve built a career for someone else’s strengths. This is where a self assessment career approach changes the game. It’s not about a generic test that tells you to be a doctor or a lawyer. It’s about a deep dive into your natural work actions – whether you’re a Pioneer chasing the next shiny thing or an Auditor protecting the team from disasters they don’t see coming.
At Hey Compono, we believe you aren’t broken and you don’t need fixing. You need recognition. Our personality-adaptive coaching starts with a quick assessment to help you see your brain’s natural wiring, so every conversation we have is tailored to how you actually think and communicate.
Self-awareness is the ultimate career superpower. Research has shown that high-performing teams consistently perform eight key work activities: Evaluating, Coordinating, Campaigning, Pioneering, Advising, Helping, and Doing. While we can all do a bit of everything, we each have a dominant preference. This is your work personality. If you’re forced to spend 90% of your day in an activity that sits at the bottom of your preference list, you’re going to feel misunderstood and undervalued.
Consider the 'Pioneer.' If you’re a Pioneer, you thrive on innovation and out-of-the-box ideas. But if your current role demands the meticulous detail-orientation of an 'Auditor,' you’ll constantly hear that you’re “unfocused” or “messy.” You aren’t either of those things – you’re just in the wrong seat. A self assessment career plan helps you identify these misalignments before they turn into a crisis. It allows you to say, “I’m not slow; I’m being thorough to save us from an expensive mistake.”
Knowing your type – like the Evaluator who weighs up every option or the Helper who maintains team harmony – gives you the vocabulary to advocate for yourself. It moves you from a place of apologizing for your nature to mastering your capabilities. You start to see that what you thought were your ‘too much’ traits are actually the very things that make you indispensable in the right environment.
Once you’ve identified your work personality, the next step is applying that knowledge to your daily reality. This isn’t a one-time event; it’s an ongoing practice of self-mastery. For example, if you’ve discovered you’re a 'Campaigner,' you know you bring incredible energy and persuasion to a team. However, your self assessment career insights might also show that you tend to dominate discussions or neglect the 'here and now' for future possibilities.
Growth doesn't come from suppressing these traits. It comes from managing them. You can learn to dial up your natural enthusiasm when the team needs vision, and consciously create space for the 'Auditors' or 'Coordinators' when the project needs grounding. This is the 'inside-out' model of professional development. When you understand your own patterns, you stop reacting to triggers and start choosing your responses.
Hey Compono helps you bridge these gaps by providing a safe, zero-judgement space to process your workplace interactions. Because the AI understands your specific personality type, it won’t give you generic advice. It will help you find the right words for a difficult conversation based on whether you’re an instinctive 'Doer' or a reflective 'Advisor.'
We don’t work in vacuums. Most of our workplace stress comes from interpersonal friction – the gap between how we see the world and how our colleagues see it. A self assessment career journey inevitably leads to better relationships. When you understand that your 'too rigid' boss is actually a 'Coordinator' who values efficiency and deadlines, you stop taking their structure personally. You learn to speak their language.
If you’re an 'Advisor' who values flexibility and hearing everyone’s voice, you might clash with an 'Evaluator' who wants quick, logical results. Without the context of work personalities, this feels like an ego battle. With the context, it becomes a strategic conversation about balancing thoroughness with speed. You begin to recognise that a high-performing team needs the friction between different types to produce the best results. Your goal isn't to eliminate the difference; it's to utilise it.
This level of emotional intelligence is what separates managers from leaders. It’s the ability to look at a conflict and see the underlying personality dynamics at play. By doing the work on yourself first, you become the person who can harmonise a team, not by making everyone the same, but by helping everyone be more of who they already are.
The ultimate goal of a self assessment career strategy is to move toward a life where your work feels like an extension of your natural self. Imagine a workday where your primary tasks align with your natural superpowers. Where you don't have to put on a 'work mask' the moment you log in. This isn't a pipe dream; it's the result of consistent, honest self-reflection and the courage to make adjustments based on what you find.
You might find that you don't need a total career change. Often, just shifting 20% of your responsibilities or changing how you communicate your needs to your lead can transform your experience. You might realise that your 'overthinking' is actually a deep need for analytical frameworks, and by moving into a more strategic role, that 'flaw' becomes your greatest asset. Don't extinguish your light just because you're standing in the wrong room. Find the room that needs exactly the kind of light you provide.
Ready to understand yourself better? You can learn about personality-adaptive coaching and see how it fits your specific journey. Stop guessing and start growing with a partner that actually knows you.
A self assessment career strategy is a method of evaluating your natural work preferences, behaviours, and personality traits to align your professional path with your strengths. Unlike traditional career planning, it focuses on 'why' you do things to ensure long-term satisfaction and prevent burnout.
Knowing your work personality allows you to identify your 'superpowers' and blind spots. It gives you the language to explain your needs to your team, helps you understand why you might clash with certain colleagues, and enables you to choose tasks that energise rather than drain you.
Assessments based on established organisational psychology, like the 8 Work Personalities used by Hey Compono, are highly effective at identifying behavioural patterns. They provide a baseline for self-reflection rather than a rigid label, allowing you to see how you naturally contribute to a team.
While your core behavioural preferences tend to remain stable, your ability to adapt and 'flex' into other styles grows with self-awareness. A self assessment career approach helps you master your natural style while expanding your range to handle different workplace challenges.
After an assessment, the best step is to reflect on your current role. Look for misalignments between your natural type and your daily tasks. Use the insights to have honest conversations with your manager or use a tool like Hey Compono to practise new communication strategies tailored to your type.

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